Your comments regarding my post “Finding your Soul Mate, but…” were very felpful but unfortunately turned out to be in vain… the guy dumped her… I cant believe it..
This is not a guy who she met through friends or by herself… it was arranged by their families, and yet he turned out to be an ***…
He promised her the clouds, he was talking to her about their life after marriage and how all he wants is to make her happy.. they even talked about the numbers and names of the children they are going to have, and then what did he do??? he DISSAPEARED.. he did not even respect her and treate her in a mature way by telling her to her face that its not going to work.. the guy is 40 years old for God’s sake, and yet he behaved like a child..
What do guys do that? believe me we would really appreciate you if you talk to us directly and tell us that you dont think we are compatible enough and that its not going to work out.. this will make us respect you and wish you luck..
He simply stopped calling and stopped returning her phone calls… are we in high school?! I know you might think that she should not jump to conclusions and that something might have happended to him, but no, he is just BUSY…
Guys, guys, guys…. I dont believe that all guys are a** h****, but some girls do know how to attract them..
I really really feel sorry for her, this girl went through a lot in her life and she finally thought that this is the person that will make her happy.. she talked to me about her future plans with him and how she imagines their life together would be.. she talked to me about what he likes and what he doesnt and how she is willing to do anything to make him happy.. she is even willing to overlook his gay clothes 
Its sad, I dont know what to tell her, we all have been there and yet you feel you have nothing to say.. sometimes in these situations all your bad memories come back out of no where and you feel that you need a shoulder to cry on..
But I guess all I can say is that everyone deserves a good decent person to love… someone who would appreciate and respent you.. but on your way to finding this person you will face a lot of bumps that might stop you… all you have to do is jump over these bumps and never look back at them.. jump so high and enjoy it believing that at the end the person that is meant for you will catch you and will lead your way..
Indeed, that is sad, I’m sorry to hear that.
Sadly, I’ve heard a lot of stories alike, and they all leave a bitter feeling! Anyhow, I wish her best of luck, and hopefully she’ll find someone better.
كتير سمعت قصص متل هيك عن جد انا بحس الشب كل ما تاخر ب الزواج كل ما صارت نفسيته مريضة بزيادة….مرة تقدم ل اختي دكتور كبير و لسى مو متجوز اعطى موعد ل اخوي انه يجي يشوفه و بالاخير ما اجا ما بعرف ب شو ممكن انهم بفكروا بس عن جد بالاخير من حظ صاحبتك انه ما صار نصيب و لا كان عاشت مع انسان مريض و رح بالاخير تندم انها وافقت عليه عن جد عسى ان تكرهوا شيئا فهو خير لكم
I am doing this post about the whole love/dating issue..
but this guy isnt included, because simply he is a jerk!
Jasim: thanks a lot for your sweet words.. I hope she will find someone better as well..
متابعة: I guess you are right, mostly there is something wrong with guys who are in their forties and never been married, especially if they are capable financially and this one is.
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Awwww, i am so sorry to hear that!!
It is probably for the best, hopefully she has better luck waiting for her around the corner. She defenitly feels sad now but once its over she’ll only remember his gay clothes
God bless hun
wonders: you are a sweetheart.. ill pass on your message to her, im sure it will make her smile through this
thanks a lot.
It’s easier to run than standing your ground and having to deal with women’s drama. The what, why, where, how, who, when and the other 20 million questions. And NO, you will not respect him nor appreciate him after that!
The guy is really not a Jerk, your friend, and I’m sorry to say this, has built huge dreams on nothing but few good words. Now that’s out of her kind heart of course. But that’s exactly what happened. She flew over the clouds only on hopes. By the way, that in itself causes many guys to withdraw as they seem the woman leeching to them.
There’s nothing wrong with the guys, there’s nothing wrong with the girls. The whole problem is how people over dramatize matters and cause all their friends to sympathize with them as they show how victimized they were.
Anyway, I feel sorry for your friend, I wish her luck. As for the guy, he’s just not interested in her. She can just let it go (and that actually drives guys crazy, the feeling that he was easily forgotten)
بعدين الكلام انه اذا شخص تأخر بالزواج بتكون شخصيته مريضة كلام غير صحيح. يعني كمان لما اشخاص يقولوا انه البنت اذا تأخرت بالزواج بتعنّس و بتصير مريضة نفسيا كلام غير صحيح. و الصراحة غير مقبول لا على الشباب و لا على البنات. لكن الأصح و اعتذر على التصحيح في هذه الحالة، الأصح اعتبار ان كل شخص يمثّل نفسه، و لا يمثل جنسه او جيله او حتى عائلته. و الكثير من الرجال و النساء قد تدفعهم ظروفهم الى الأسوأ و قد لا يجدوا الإنسان المناسب فيتأخر بهم العمر دون زواج.
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@ Qwaider…..You’re seeing this from a purely manly perspective! Its not about the guy right now (he’s not been heartbroken, he’s just BUSY), its about the woman who’s dreams he has raised and dashed without so much as a second look. You might be right that she built her dreams on fantasies and sweet words but can you blame her? In Africa, we say ‘there’s no smoke without fire’, if he hadnt goaded her on and fed her dreams that im sure he knew he could not fulfil, she wouldnt have had those dreams. I mean we might be gullible but we’re not as dumb as you guys might like to think. Worldwide, women go through these things everyday, so are u trying to say they all make it up in an effort to get their friends to pity them? No, i’ve been there and i know others who have as well and my dear, it had nothin to do with getting everyone to feel sorry for you cos, that aint gonna do nothin for you…its not gonna reduce your misery nor the feeling of unworthiness that comes with it.
You guys should really give us some credit….dont lie to us cos you think thats what we want to hear …….its not. Simply put, dont make promises you cant keep!!!
leoness18: I couldnt have said it better than you did
.. they do underestimate us, and there best solution for everything is running… what should that tell us about them!!
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