Comments on: Ending Relationships… http://princessn.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/ending-relationships/ Just another WordPress.com weblog Wed, 26 Aug 2009 06:34:15 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Princess N http://princessn.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/ending-relationships/#comment-305 Princess N Sun, 27 Jul 2008 06:46:27 +0000 http://princessn.wordpress.com/?p=77#comment-305 leoness18: I couldnt have said it better than you did :).. they do underestimate us, and there best solution for everything is running... what should that tell us about them!! Welcome to my blog :) leoness18: I couldnt have said it better than you did :) .. they do underestimate us, and there best solution for everything is running… what should that tell us about them!!
Welcome to my blog :)

]]> By: leoness18 http://princessn.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/ending-relationships/#comment-304 leoness18 Fri, 25 Jul 2008 19:55:48 +0000 http://princessn.wordpress.com/?p=77#comment-304 @ Qwaider.....You're seeing this from a purely manly perspective! Its not about the guy right now (he's not been heartbroken, he's just BUSY), its about the woman who's dreams he has raised and dashed without so much as a second look. You might be right that she built her dreams on fantasies and sweet words but can you blame her? In Africa, we say 'there's no smoke without fire', if he hadnt goaded her on and fed her dreams that im sure he knew he could not fulfil, she wouldnt have had those dreams. I mean we might be gullible but we're not as dumb as you guys might like to think. Worldwide, women go through these things everyday, so are u trying to say they all make it up in an effort to get their friends to pity them? No, i've been there and i know others who have as well and my dear, it had nothin to do with getting everyone to feel sorry for you cos, that aint gonna do nothin for you...its not gonna reduce your misery nor the feeling of unworthiness that comes with it. You guys should really give us some credit....dont lie to us cos you think thats what we want to hear .......its not. Simply put, dont make promises you cant keep!!! @ Qwaider…..You’re seeing this from a purely manly perspective! Its not about the guy right now (he’s not been heartbroken, he’s just BUSY), its about the woman who’s dreams he has raised and dashed without so much as a second look. You might be right that she built her dreams on fantasies and sweet words but can you blame her? In Africa, we say ‘there’s no smoke without fire’, if he hadnt goaded her on and fed her dreams that im sure he knew he could not fulfil, she wouldnt have had those dreams. I mean we might be gullible but we’re not as dumb as you guys might like to think. Worldwide, women go through these things everyday, so are u trying to say they all make it up in an effort to get their friends to pity them? No, i’ve been there and i know others who have as well and my dear, it had nothin to do with getting everyone to feel sorry for you cos, that aint gonna do nothin for you…its not gonna reduce your misery nor the feeling of unworthiness that comes with it.
You guys should really give us some credit….dont lie to us cos you think thats what we want to hear …….its not. Simply put, dont make promises you cant keep!!!

]]> By: Qwaider قويدر http://princessn.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/ending-relationships/#comment-278 Qwaider قويدر Wed, 02 Jul 2008 15:52:40 +0000 http://princessn.wordpress.com/?p=77#comment-278 بعدين الكلام انه اذا شخص تأخر بالزواج بتكون شخصيته مريضة كلام غير صحيح. يعني كمان لما اشخاص يقولوا انه البنت اذا تأخرت بالزواج بتعنّس و بتصير مريضة نفسيا كلام غير صحيح. و الصراحة غير مقبول لا على الشباب و لا على البنات. لكن الأصح و اعتذر على التصحيح في هذه الحالة، الأصح اعتبار ان كل شخص يمثّل نفسه، و لا يمثل جنسه او جيله او حتى عائلته. و الكثير من الرجال و النساء قد تدفعهم ظروفهم الى الأسوأ و قد لا يجدوا الإنسان المناسب فيتأخر بهم العمر دون زواج. الرحمة حلوة برضه بعدين الكلام انه اذا شخص تأخر بالزواج بتكون شخصيته مريضة كلام غير صحيح. يعني كمان لما اشخاص يقولوا انه البنت اذا تأخرت بالزواج بتعنّس و بتصير مريضة نفسيا كلام غير صحيح. و الصراحة غير مقبول لا على الشباب و لا على البنات. لكن الأصح و اعتذر على التصحيح في هذه الحالة، الأصح اعتبار ان كل شخص يمثّل نفسه، و لا يمثل جنسه او جيله او حتى عائلته. و الكثير من الرجال و النساء قد تدفعهم ظروفهم الى الأسوأ و قد لا يجدوا الإنسان المناسب فيتأخر بهم العمر دون زواج.
الرحمة حلوة برضه

]]> By: Qwaider قويدر http://princessn.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/ending-relationships/#comment-277 Qwaider قويدر Wed, 02 Jul 2008 15:47:42 +0000 http://princessn.wordpress.com/?p=77#comment-277 It's easier to run than standing your ground and having to deal with women's drama. The what, why, where, how, who, when and the other 20 million questions. And NO, you will not respect him nor appreciate him after that! The guy is really not a Jerk, your friend, and I'm sorry to say this, has built huge dreams on nothing but few good words. Now that's out of her kind heart of course. But that's exactly what happened. She flew over the clouds only on hopes. By the way, that in itself causes many guys to withdraw as they seem the woman leeching to them. There's nothing wrong with the guys, there's nothing wrong with the girls. The whole problem is how people over dramatize matters and cause all their friends to sympathize with them as they show how victimized they were. Anyway, I feel sorry for your friend, I wish her luck. As for the guy, he's just not interested in her. She can just let it go (and that actually drives guys crazy, the feeling that he was easily forgotten) It’s easier to run than standing your ground and having to deal with women’s drama. The what, why, where, how, who, when and the other 20 million questions. And NO, you will not respect him nor appreciate him after that!

The guy is really not a Jerk, your friend, and I’m sorry to say this, has built huge dreams on nothing but few good words. Now that’s out of her kind heart of course. But that’s exactly what happened. She flew over the clouds only on hopes. By the way, that in itself causes many guys to withdraw as they seem the woman leeching to them.

There’s nothing wrong with the guys, there’s nothing wrong with the girls. The whole problem is how people over dramatize matters and cause all their friends to sympathize with them as they show how victimized they were.

Anyway, I feel sorry for your friend, I wish her luck. As for the guy, he’s just not interested in her. She can just let it go (and that actually drives guys crazy, the feeling that he was easily forgotten)

]]> By: Princess N http://princessn.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/ending-relationships/#comment-276 Princess N Wed, 02 Jul 2008 12:53:15 +0000 http://princessn.wordpress.com/?p=77#comment-276 wonders: you are a sweetheart.. ill pass on your message to her, im sure it will make her smile through this :) thanks a lot. wonders: you are a sweetheart.. ill pass on your message to her, im sure it will make her smile through this :) thanks a lot.

]]> By: wonders http://princessn.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/ending-relationships/#comment-275 wonders Wed, 02 Jul 2008 11:56:05 +0000 http://princessn.wordpress.com/?p=77#comment-275 Awwww, i am so sorry to hear that!! It is probably for the best, hopefully she has better luck waiting for her around the corner. She defenitly feels sad now but once its over she'll only remember his gay clothes :D God bless hun Awwww, i am so sorry to hear that!!
It is probably for the best, hopefully she has better luck waiting for her around the corner. She defenitly feels sad now but once its over she’ll only remember his gay clothes :D
God bless hun

]]> By: Princess N http://princessn.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/ending-relationships/#comment-274 Princess N Wed, 02 Jul 2008 10:47:46 +0000 http://princessn.wordpress.com/?p=77#comment-274 Jasim: thanks a lot for your sweet words.. I hope she will find someone better as well.. متابعة: I guess you are right, mostly there is something wrong with guys who are in their forties and never been married, especially if they are capable financially and this one is. Welcome to my blog :) Maher: I cant wait to read it :) Jasim: thanks a lot for your sweet words.. I hope she will find someone better as well..

متابعة: I guess you are right, mostly there is something wrong with guys who are in their forties and never been married, especially if they are capable financially and this one is.
Welcome to my blog :)

Maher: I cant wait to read it :)

]]> By: Maher http://princessn.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/ending-relationships/#comment-273 Maher Wed, 02 Jul 2008 10:42:43 +0000 http://princessn.wordpress.com/?p=77#comment-273 I am doing this post about the whole love/dating issue.. but this guy isnt included, because simply he is a jerk! I am doing this post about the whole love/dating issue..
but this guy isnt included, because simply he is a jerk!

]]> By: متابعة http://princessn.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/ending-relationships/#comment-272 متابعة Wed, 02 Jul 2008 10:18:12 +0000 http://princessn.wordpress.com/?p=77#comment-272 كتير سمعت قصص متل هيك عن جد انا بحس الشب كل ما تاخر ب الزواج كل ما صارت نفسيته مريضة بزيادة....مرة تقدم ل اختي دكتور كبير و لسى مو متجوز اعطى موعد ل اخوي انه يجي يشوفه و بالاخير ما اجا ما بعرف ب شو ممكن انهم بفكروا بس عن جد بالاخير من حظ صاحبتك انه ما صار نصيب و لا كان عاشت مع انسان مريض و رح بالاخير تندم انها وافقت عليه عن جد عسى ان تكرهوا شيئا فهو خير لكم كتير سمعت قصص متل هيك عن جد انا بحس الشب كل ما تاخر ب الزواج كل ما صارت نفسيته مريضة بزيادة….مرة تقدم ل اختي دكتور كبير و لسى مو متجوز اعطى موعد ل اخوي انه يجي يشوفه و بالاخير ما اجا ما بعرف ب شو ممكن انهم بفكروا بس عن جد بالاخير من حظ صاحبتك انه ما صار نصيب و لا كان عاشت مع انسان مريض و رح بالاخير تندم انها وافقت عليه عن جد عسى ان تكرهوا شيئا فهو خير لكم

]]> By: Jasim http://princessn.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/ending-relationships/#comment-271 Jasim Wed, 02 Jul 2008 10:01:59 +0000 http://princessn.wordpress.com/?p=77#comment-271 Indeed, that is sad, I'm sorry to hear that. Sadly, I've heard a lot of stories alike, and they all leave a bitter feeling! Anyhow, I wish her best of luck, and hopefully she'll find someone better. Indeed, that is sad, I’m sorry to hear that.

Sadly, I’ve heard a lot of stories alike, and they all leave a bitter feeling! Anyhow, I wish her best of luck, and hopefully she’ll find someone better.

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