She is driving me crazyyyyy…
I have 2 sisters and one brother, my brother is 21 and my sisters are 24 and 15.. the first 2 are angels, not complete angels but compared to the youngest they definately are..
None of us was that rude and that indifferent.. she is driving us all crazy and my mother keeps telling me to handle her as she lost hope..
When our home phone rings at 08:00 am we know that its her school calling for something that she did… her grades are bad, she has the worst best friend ever, and she answers her teachers and her parents back which we never did..
And still all of the above might be forgiven if she did not lie to me.. I can forgive anything except lying.. I have tried everything with her, being her friend, being nice to her and trying to understand her, grounding her, and nothing is helping… everytime I take her mobile from her, her friends give her another one, I have taken almost 5 mobiles from her till now.. She keeps saying that she is going somewhere and then she goes somewhere else.. my mother, brother and father caught her and yet she does not care.. she treates us as if we are crazy and that she is not doing anything wrong.. and what drives me even more crazy she is that after I have a huge fight with her she comes to me asking me to drop her at her friends house as if nothing happened!!! and the worst thing is that I think she has a boyfriend!! Man she is only 15!!!! what can I do…
I was able to handle her behavior at school at least, I met with her principal and we both are trying from our sides to control her.. so far its not bad..
But my parents are very sad.. and so am I.. I know that teenagers are teenagers and she will grow out of it but I cant just sit back until she does..
I dont know what to do..
Blame her hormones!
But somehow you have to get her to understand that your family is her only real and true friend.
The boyfriend situation for a defiant teenager is a recipe for disaster…. So be extra careful with that, or you will lose her… forever!
Allah y3eenkom
same thingy with my brother…but i treated the situation bel 3aks..
i went with the flow..wa2afet ma3ah o after i gained his trust..he started to listens to me!
maybe you should try it this way!
Qwaider: Believe me I am trying to make her understand and told her that no one in this whole world would love her and want the best for her more than we do but she is not listening..
Akhhhhh
Maher: Thanks with the advice but I think its different with girls, I cant go with the flow with her because she might get into a lot of trouble before I can gain her trust.. and yet I tried it and she still lies to me!!
allah ye3enek:D
fe3lan hard situation, why not to consult someone with specialty? i mean a DR or something? i guess ur sister is somehow is a kind of person which is hard to deal with :-S
bs BF? be aware coz BF these days are just a disaster!!!
ye3enkum kaman marah, jad sa3eb!!!
مياسي: thanks for the advice.. I am trying a new and last way to deal with her.. I talked to her and told her that I love her and she is my baby sister and what she is doing in not right.. she cried and told me that she will change and that I should give her time… will see what will happen… if nothing did I think we do need a consultant..